From March 7th- March 14th my friend Becky and I
lived with a family in Tshabo, a rural village twenty minutes outside King
William’s Town in the Eastern Cape. In order to get to the Eastern Cape from
Cape Town in the Western Cape we took a grueling 17-hour bus ride on an
Intercape bus. The running joke of the voyage was that it would have been faster
to fly non-stop from Cape Town to New York City then it took us to drive across
the bottom coast of South Africa! Luckily most of our journey took place at
night and there were stops along the way for bathroom and snack breaks, so it wasn't as bad as it could have been. The only small hiccup of the trip was that
the aircon was blasting all night and when Jenna approached the driver to ask if
it could be turned down, she was told that there was a “chemical leakage” and the
aircon was on full blast so we wouldn't smell it… ummm what?! That couldn't be good!
Around 5 am we were allowed to get off the bus while the crew cleaned up the spill.
Based on the amount of blue liquid being cleared away, we determined that it was
probably the detergent that was used in the bus’s toilet that had leaked or spilled,
not carbon monoxide like Lara feared.
The rest of the voyage was thankfully uneventful, as was our stay in Tshabo.
Living in the rural village was much harder for me than I had anticipated. After
living in Cape Town for the past four weeks I was unprepared for the slow-paced
lifestyle of the village, along with the lack of reliable electricity and running
water. I also had technology withdrawals as I didn't have internet access and didn't feel comfortable pulling out my laptop and ipod in front of my parents and siblings
to do work or listen to music. The stay in the village was also emotionally hard
for me. Even though I had my cell phone, I had to conserve my airtime as there wasn't anywhere to buy airtime in the village, and as a result I felt very disconnected.
I also didn't have room in my bag for my letters from home so I couldn't pull them
out of my bag and read them when I was missing my family and friends. The biggest
difficulty however, was the language barrier. My family spoke very limited English
and Becky and I combined spoke even less Xhosa, so the week was full of broken English
and Xhosa and lots and lots of hand gestures. While stressful at first, I was able
to adjust over time as we all found a way to communicate with one another.
Even though the week in Tshabo was tough for me, I still did my best to stay
positive! Here’s my list of high points from the week:
-Being greeted by our mamas at the high school. When our taxis pulled up all
the mamas were lined up along the drive singing and dancing, welcoming us into their
homes. As soon as we jumped out of our transports they were there to greet us with
handshakes and hugs!
-Food. So much food all the time. Two breakfasts every day. And bread. So
much homemade bread.
-Taking in the beautiful view of the village and surrounding area from my
backyard
-Free time! We didn't have classes and only had a few planned activities,
including an excursion to the Steve Biko Center, so we got to explore the village,
socialize, and just plain relax after a few stressful weeks
-Getting to talk on the phone with someone special from back home
-The village dogs! I actually got to pet them unlike the dogs in Langa
-Learning how to bead and teaching mama how to make friendship bracelets in
return
-Playing with my siblings, (mama’s grandkids) Lisa, Emishle, Lakanye, and
Anita, and the rest of the neighborhood children
-Becoming friends with Anita! Anita is five and up until our last full day didn't want to have anything to do with Becky and I because she was so terrified
of us. Everything changed at the homestay party however, when she decided to try
to tickle Becky and I. By the end of the day the three of us were the best of friends!
-Mama’s excitement when Becky and I gave her our thank you gifts for the family:
a new broom, dish towels from Vermont, and maple syrup from Massachusetts. I’ve
never seen her so happy! She started jumping up and down when she opened the packages
and had the biggest smile on her face
-Our siblings’ excitement when we gave them their gifts: noise makers and
kaleidoscoops. It was a good thing we saved the noise makers for the last night
because boy they were loud!
-Getting to spend time with Becky. We were good friends before Tshabo, but
living (and bathing!) together has definitely brought us closer.
-My Tshabo Family. Though we couldn't always communicate, there was still
a lot of kindness and love. While I might not miss living in the village, I will
miss my family and look back fondly on the time we spent together over the course
of the week.
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our house |
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our chickens + the outhouse |